Yesterday I attended a funeral for a friend Kathy Fisher Fitzpatrick who died at the age of 48 due to cancer. When this year started Im sure Kathy would of never dreamed that this would be the last year of her life. I had met Kathy through her brother Mark that I have been friends with for many years. In January of this year she was diagnosed with Cancer and for 11 months she would fight courageously to fight this evil desease. The last 11 months of her life she would spend 2 to 3 weeks of every month in Hillcrest Hospital. When I went to visit her after the masectomy I went wondering what kinds of words of encouragement could I say to her. People that know me know that I usually dont have a problem with talking. I was blessed with the talent of talking...you know its one of my hobbies...lol When I walked into Kathys room I was met with a joy and smile that only Kathy could have. I know that she was on strong medicine at the time but Kathy was always joyfull, hopefully and encouraging without even trying. I left her room feeling guilty that she had uplifted me and I hadnt done anything for her. When I was with Kathy I saw Jesus in her ....I will miss my dear friend. I took for granted that we would have more time but that was not to be.
At the funeral what words would I say to a father that lost his daughter or a son that lost his mother or a brother that lost his older sister? I just dont know the words to say. The only thing I could do was give a big hug and say I love you. When someone that you know dies and they are about the same age as you dont you start thinking about our own time on earth? How would I be remembered? What goals and bucket list do I want to accomplish? Kathy put family and God first. When she died it didnt matter how much material possessions she had, what her golf game was like or how important her job was. Kathy took with her what was important the love for her savior and love for her family and friends. That is how I will remember my friend Kathy.
Saturday, November 13, 2010
Monday, November 8, 2010
IM BACK.....
Good Monday to everyone.
As you can tell I have not been diligent in my writing of this blog. You know its one of those things that you want to do but dont make it a priortiy so it never gets done. Well Im here today to give you an update of my world and hope that you will continue to come back and comment on any subject that might be of interest to you.
I love this time of year....Growing up Summer was always my favorite time of the year..out of school and free. Now I enjoy the cooler weather, the OSU football game (my husband and friend Lisa both graduated from Oklahoma State). I enjoy decorating my apartment with what has become a collection of scarecrows (why I dont know). I cant believe that Thanksgiving is just around the corner. While food is the main focus of this time of year. Iam going to try to focus more on why am I thankful?? Thanksgiving holds many memories of family that is no longer here. I have one sister that lives with her family in Amarillo and one that lives here in Tulsa. While my perfect holiday would be to have eveyrone together every Christmas and Thanksgiving...that just doesnt happen with my siblings...miles and work committments has become priorities over spending time with family on Thanksgiving and Christmas. I do understand as they have there family and friends so I dont expect things to change. Siblings sometimes grow apart and things are never like they used to be when it comes to the Holidays. Sad but true.
I am thankful that Mark doesnt have to work this Thanksgiving and we havent yet decided what we are going to do. Last year we went to the River Spririt Buffett and it was really good. I was shocked at how many people showed up. This year if we decide to go we getting there early to wait in line. One good thing about going out for Thanksgiving is that when you are trying to cut down on eating you dont have all the food leftovers to graze on all the rest of the day. I can remember eating turkey and dressing for days...lol What do you do with your families on Thanksgiving?
So many things Ive been thankful for this year...I received 2 promotions at work which is amazing in this economy right now. Community Care has treated me well in the 7 and 1/2 years that I have worked there. Mark and I had the opportunity to see my niece Rachel graduate which I am so proud of her and her many accomplishments. Although I gained some of the 100 lbs that I lost September of 2009 I am continuing my stuggle with this food addiction. You know people wonder why I dont drink much alcohol..I joke that I have enough problem with food and dont wont to add Alcohol to my addictive personality.. I have some great recipes that I would like to share. I am thankful for all the blogs that I frequently read that encourage me. If you look at the list you will see the blogs that I frequent. It shows me Im not alone and that someone else understands and shows me that this evil addiction can be conquered. I also frequent Hungry Girl website... I cant fail to mention Ruby from Style Network...Mark and I met Ruby last September and continue to watch her TV show which should return on Style Network January of 2011.
2010 has been a great year sharing with my friends Lisa, Geri, Victoria, Lora and Gerri...I enjoyed a road trip to Thackerville to see Rick Springfield with Geri and Victoria which was a blast...enjoyed many birthday get togethers...havent missed a one. Most of all Im thankful to my best friend/husband Mark....wow..after 5 years of marriage I still feel giddy and happy that God brought such a kind hearted selfless man in my life. Mark has opened a new world for me...changed my priorities from me to we. I cant wait till the weekends to spend time with him...if only to go to the grocery store or out for breakfest it is so comforting to have someone in my life to share those simple moments with. I thought I was fine to be single the rest of my life but didnt know how wonderful it would to be married. Good things comes to those who wait...but I have to admit it would of never happened if I didnt have prayer and I didnt put myself out there to meet someone. I hear so many people hold themselves back and are afraid to put there real selves out there. Hey I was 300 plus pounds when I met my husband and although he is overweight to I just didnt see it. We are the previous Mike and Molly (TV show on CBS Monday nights). I just want to shout off the rooftops...that I love this man......Now he's not perfect as Im not the perfect woman....we work together and that is they key. Im not saying there is anything wrong with being single...but God knew what he was doing when the institution of marriage began.
Ive discovered Dave Ramsey and budgeting....whats that. If you dont have a budget or a plan for retirement....now is a time to start on it. I encourage you to check Dave Ramsey radio show out or his website. It was life changing for me....hopefully it will be for you.
Well I better get some laundry and housework done. This will be my last Monday off untill January so I better enjoy my last 3 day weekend off for awhile. Have a great day and please be sure to leave a comment or question. My goal is to share simple low fat reciepes and share encouragement to anyone that would like to loose weight. While Weight Watchers is my key to life change it may not be your way of doing it. Share with me your tips of loosing and maintaining.
Have a great Monday
As you can tell I have not been diligent in my writing of this blog. You know its one of those things that you want to do but dont make it a priortiy so it never gets done. Well Im here today to give you an update of my world and hope that you will continue to come back and comment on any subject that might be of interest to you.
I love this time of year....Growing up Summer was always my favorite time of the year..out of school and free. Now I enjoy the cooler weather, the OSU football game (my husband and friend Lisa both graduated from Oklahoma State). I enjoy decorating my apartment with what has become a collection of scarecrows (why I dont know). I cant believe that Thanksgiving is just around the corner. While food is the main focus of this time of year. Iam going to try to focus more on why am I thankful?? Thanksgiving holds many memories of family that is no longer here. I have one sister that lives with her family in Amarillo and one that lives here in Tulsa. While my perfect holiday would be to have eveyrone together every Christmas and Thanksgiving...that just doesnt happen with my siblings...miles and work committments has become priorities over spending time with family on Thanksgiving and Christmas. I do understand as they have there family and friends so I dont expect things to change. Siblings sometimes grow apart and things are never like they used to be when it comes to the Holidays. Sad but true.
I am thankful that Mark doesnt have to work this Thanksgiving and we havent yet decided what we are going to do. Last year we went to the River Spririt Buffett and it was really good. I was shocked at how many people showed up. This year if we decide to go we getting there early to wait in line. One good thing about going out for Thanksgiving is that when you are trying to cut down on eating you dont have all the food leftovers to graze on all the rest of the day. I can remember eating turkey and dressing for days...lol What do you do with your families on Thanksgiving?
So many things Ive been thankful for this year...I received 2 promotions at work which is amazing in this economy right now. Community Care has treated me well in the 7 and 1/2 years that I have worked there. Mark and I had the opportunity to see my niece Rachel graduate which I am so proud of her and her many accomplishments. Although I gained some of the 100 lbs that I lost September of 2009 I am continuing my stuggle with this food addiction. You know people wonder why I dont drink much alcohol..I joke that I have enough problem with food and dont wont to add Alcohol to my addictive personality.. I have some great recipes that I would like to share. I am thankful for all the blogs that I frequently read that encourage me. If you look at the list you will see the blogs that I frequent. It shows me Im not alone and that someone else understands and shows me that this evil addiction can be conquered. I also frequent Hungry Girl website... I cant fail to mention Ruby from Style Network...Mark and I met Ruby last September and continue to watch her TV show which should return on Style Network January of 2011.
2010 has been a great year sharing with my friends Lisa, Geri, Victoria, Lora and Gerri...I enjoyed a road trip to Thackerville to see Rick Springfield with Geri and Victoria which was a blast...enjoyed many birthday get togethers...havent missed a one. Most of all Im thankful to my best friend/husband Mark....wow..after 5 years of marriage I still feel giddy and happy that God brought such a kind hearted selfless man in my life. Mark has opened a new world for me...changed my priorities from me to we. I cant wait till the weekends to spend time with him...if only to go to the grocery store or out for breakfest it is so comforting to have someone in my life to share those simple moments with. I thought I was fine to be single the rest of my life but didnt know how wonderful it would to be married. Good things comes to those who wait...but I have to admit it would of never happened if I didnt have prayer and I didnt put myself out there to meet someone. I hear so many people hold themselves back and are afraid to put there real selves out there. Hey I was 300 plus pounds when I met my husband and although he is overweight to I just didnt see it. We are the previous Mike and Molly (TV show on CBS Monday nights). I just want to shout off the rooftops...that I love this man......Now he's not perfect as Im not the perfect woman....we work together and that is they key. Im not saying there is anything wrong with being single...but God knew what he was doing when the institution of marriage began.
Ive discovered Dave Ramsey and budgeting....whats that. If you dont have a budget or a plan for retirement....now is a time to start on it. I encourage you to check Dave Ramsey radio show out or his website. It was life changing for me....hopefully it will be for you.
Well I better get some laundry and housework done. This will be my last Monday off untill January so I better enjoy my last 3 day weekend off for awhile. Have a great day and please be sure to leave a comment or question. My goal is to share simple low fat reciepes and share encouragement to anyone that would like to loose weight. While Weight Watchers is my key to life change it may not be your way of doing it. Share with me your tips of loosing and maintaining.
Have a great Monday
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